The only person I have had sex with is a man and we have a passionate and adventurous, no holes barred relationship. However, he is the only male that I have ever had any desire for and I don't get turned on by looking at other males or have any desire to have a sex with other males. That is not to say that I don't find some pictures of males fascinating and of interest to me but my overwhelming preference in porn is for women and some female porn can get my juices flowing. Consequently, I think of myself as bisexual.

Wider society cannot seem to accept the concept of somebody being bisexual. On a recent visit to a sexual health clinic I was presented with a form that asked for my sexual orientation and the only options I had were for straight or gay. I ticked gay and was treated very differently to my partner who had ticked straight, even to the extent that I was given a separate counselling session that he was not. Not all things in life are black and white and I am living proof that there is an element of colour. I am bisexual.

Tim